Beauty?
Beauty falls in the eyes of the beholder
Love at first sight?
To me, I believe tat many people are seeking for the "chemistry", and depend on the "feel" they receive from the opp gender, including myself.
Man! He is so Handsome! Gosh She is so Pretty! So wanna be with him/her.
Yup No doubt that im hearing that all the time.
Simple saying. It's called a "Crush".
Well even I do sometimes! I have that 'Feel' many times, thinking that Could she be the One?
And Sometimes this "feel" took off to another step of commitment with someone i barely know in the beginning.
However, i have learn to Filter such feelings and draw a line now.
Being in a Relationship with someone because he/she is Good looking BUT you barely know him/her.
OR
Being in a Relationship with Someone whom have been your close friend for Years.
Which one is your ideal choice?
A couple status but just begin to know each other?
OR
A couple who knows almost all each other's flaws and strengths at the start of r/s?
Which one will you prefer?
To me,I prefer someone whom i already know her weaknesses and her strength so that i can help her change, accept her flaws and at the same time, learn from her strengths ,to someone i have yet to discover her virtues.
To me, Inner Beauty and Understanding Holds the Key to long last r/s with my spouse.
Cuz the beauty that is visible will not last forever.
What is the point of getting a some pretty Girlfriend or handsome boyfriend who doesn't even understand you, who keeps asking you "WHY are you ALWAYS thinking this way?Why cant You think this way instead!(their way)" or doesn't accept your flaws or don't see you as who you are?
Good Character Doesn't Mean that both can connect well either.
I guess it's all about compromising and giving in to each other way's of thinking.
CUZ Not all of us are brought up by the same parents and same environment
Why am i blogging this random topic?
Well, It's just my new mindset of seeking the right one now.
I dun want to make the same Mistake again
Instead of the First impression of Beauty, I'm seeking for the Heart.
That's all!:)
